Couples · Our signature approach

Start with a private couples intensive. Change years in days.

Couples coaching from Larissa, Markus, and the Pivot team, based in Corte Madera, Marin County. Begin with two to three private days in person, just the two of you and two coaches, or with steady weekly sessions online. Either is a complete way to start.

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Two ways to work with us

  • A private couples intensive
  • Recurring couples coaching
  • Either can be where you begin
2–3 daysprivate, immersive, and built entirely around you two

Two separate programs. Start with either.

They're different in length, pace, and cost, not in quality. Neither requires the other.

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Immersive · Concentrated

Private Couples Intensive

Two to three private days, just the two of you. For couples in crisis, at a decision point, or who simply want to move fast.

  • 2–3 consecutive days, then done
  • Away, at home, or with us
  • Best when you need change now
  • Often paired with coaching after, but never required
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Recurring · Week by week

Couples Coaching

Recurring 75-minute sessions with a coach for each of you. For couples who want steady, sustained change built into daily life.

  • Recurring 75-minute sessions
  • By video, from wherever you live
  • Best for steady, lasting change
  • A complete program on its own
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Program one
Private couples intensive · 2–3 immersive days

Months of progress, concentrated into days.

No waiting weeks between sessions while things get worse. You step out of daily life, work intensively with your own facilitators, and leave with real traction, and a plan you both believe in.

2–3 private days

Uninterrupted time together: long enough to get past the surface fight and into what's actually driving it.

Wherever you need it

A destination of your choice, your own home, or with us in the Bay Area. Many couples prefer to get away.

Only your relationship

No group, no other couples. Your facilitators focus on the two of you the entire time.

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Why two coaches?

When one person guides both partners, it's easy for someone to feel outnumbered. Here, each of you has a coach who is there for you, so the work feels fair and safe enough to be honest.

Each of you works on your own side first. Then all four of you meet. Because the two coaches know both perspectives, they can keep the conversation out of blame and help you work as a team again.

How coaching sessions work

1

Your own coach

Each of you is matched with your own coach, someone chosen for your wants and needs, fully in your corner.

2

Your own work

You each meet 1:1 with your coach to understand your patterns and what you bring to the relationship.

3

Come together

Then the four of you meet. With both coaches collaborating, the conversation moves past blame into rebuilding.

What coaching includes

Whether you're in crisis or deepening intimacy, the work meets you where you are.

75-minute sessions

Longer sessions, because couples work needs room: no rushing the hard conversations.

A coach for each of you

You each feel seen and heard by someone who knows your side, while both coaches work for the relationship.

Support between sessions

Both coaches are available for texting and short calls when something flares up mid-week.

A personalized curriculum

Materials and practices chosen for what your relationship needs, whether that's crisis repair or deepening intimacy.

The Pivot Process

A structured, practice-based method for recognizing the survival patterns you each fall into under stress and practicing steadier ways to respond, applied to your partnership week by week.

Emotional & physical intimacy

Rebuilding closeness in every sense, emotional and physical, not just fewer arguments.

Wherever you are

In crisis, or ready to go deeper.

In either program, your curriculum is personalized to what your relationship needs right now.

In crisis

Stabilize and rebuild

Betrayal, constant conflict, or the brink of separation. Your coaches help you stop the spiral, rebuild trust, and decide, together and clearly, what comes next.

Deepening intimacy

From good to deeply connected

Nothing's "wrong," but you want more. Your coaches help you deepen emotional and physical intimacy and grow a partnership that keeps getting better.

Don't wait for things to get worse.

Book a free, no-pressure consultation with Larissa or Markus. We'll listen to where you are, help you choose between an intensive and weekly coaching, and match each of you with the right coach. Everything you share stays confidential.

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